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Overcoming Debilitating Self-Doubt

March 01, 20254 min read

I'll never forget the days when I'd feel like I was stuck in a rut. I'd compare myself to others - especially on social media – their seemingly perfect careers made me feel like I was nothing special. But as I gazed at the successes of those around me, I'd start to doubt my own abilities.

I'd struggle with my negative self-talk, my mind focused on thoughts of not being enough. I questioned my abilities as a healer. I knew that I was playing small, that I was meant for more, but I was too afraid to take the leap. The fear of failure and rejection would hold me back.

But despite all the self-doubt, there was a small voice within me that whispered, "You're meant for more." It was a gentle reminder that I had a unique gift to offer the world, a unique perspective that could make a difference. But how could I trust that voice when everything around me seemed to be telling me I was nothing special?

INSIGHTFUL REFLECTIONS

Just like driving in a car, we have blind spots. That’s why we need mirrors to help us see the areas beyond our vision. In life, these mirrors come in the form of others’ eyes as they see from a different perspective than ours.

Someone once said to me “You can’t read the label from inside the jar,” meaning that we need clear feedback from a trusted outside source – such as a therapist, counsellor, or coach - to mirror back to us what they see.

If you’re tired of doubting yourself and playing small, if you want to know who you truly are, if you need a glimpse into why the same force that created the mountains, oceans, and galaxies thought the world needed one of you too, then you need to read the label on the outside of your jar.

The label that I see on the outside of your jar is your blueprint, the reason for you being here on earth. And when I explain this blueprint to you, you’ll see what I see – your unique gift, your unique perspective. You’ll see the ‘more’ you were meant for.

THE BREAKTHROUGH

After I read my label, I started taking steps towards my dreams. With each step, my confidence grew. I realized that I didn't have to be like everyone else – I could be myself, and that was enough. I started to trust that small voice within me, the one that whispered, "You're meant for more."

If you're reading this, I want you to know that you're not alone. We all struggle with self-doubt, comparison, and the fear of not being enough. But know that you ARE enough. Your unique gifts, your perspective, and your experiences are enough. In fact, there’s nothing that you have to do to PROVE that you are enough. Take a step back, breathe, and know that there is more for you in life.

If you’re ready to read YOUR jar label, I’m happy to share the mirrors that showed me the way to a more fulfilling life. The most profound were Human Design and Astrology. For over a decade, I’ve been providing a 20+ page Human Design blueprint for hundreds of people just like you. I recently became an astrologer and can read your natal chart and tell you why you’re here, what your soul wants to offer the world, and how to fulfil your life purpose.

I love this quote: ‘You aren’t an accident. You weren’t mass-produced. You were deliberately planned, specifically gifted, and lovingly positioned on the earth.’ Embracing your true potential is the first step toward stepping into your authentic self, and I would be honoured to support you on that journey.

HOW MY JOURNEY CAN HELP YOU

Here are the mirrors that helped me. I'm certain they'll help you too. With Human Design, I can help you overcome obstacles, gain insights for effective decision-making, and feel empowered to live a fulfilling life. For $80, you'll get a 20+ report clearly explaining everything. Consultations are also available.

With Astrology, I’ll show you more than merely what your Sun Sign says about you, I’ll share what your Moon Sign and Rising Sign reveals about your nature through an insightful report called 'Your Big 3.' Currently at an introductory price of only $29.

If you're ready for deeper transformation, you can join me on the I AM. Journey. This is my signature five-week program where I guide you through profound self-discovery, personal growth, and career development. By the end of this program, you will have a clearer understanding of yourself, your strengths, values, and objectives, along with a personalized plan to help you achieve your goals.

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Debra Jones

Master Healer, Empowerment Strategist, Mindset Shifter, Teacher, Mentor, Author, Podcaster, Astrologer

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