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Beyond the Shore: Choose Your own Adventure

April 01, 20253 min read

We find ourselves at a choice point. There are two distinct realities playing out. We are to make a choice and align with the one that resonates—whether it's a lower vibration or a higher one. This decision will shape your reality.

Each of us has the power of individual choice—be it conscious or unconscious—and this choice shapes our experience.

Whatever is happening in the world - rise above it. You have the option to live through it from a higher vibration and perspective.

The 3 keys:

  1. Stop trying to control situations

  2. Acknowledge your feelings

  3. Accept the truth

Stop trying to control situations:

Relinquish (stop holding onto) what is, or has been, challenging. Choose to let go of worry and reject the role of a victim. Decide not to focus on what is lost. Instead, focus your intentions on a brighter future—a different destiny. Opt for a higher frequency and a different vibration. Don't let your energy sink to match the lower vibrations of your circumstances or others’ experiences; they too have choices to make. Your choice is your responsibility, and theirs is theirs.

You cannot elevate your vibration while in fear. When we cling to the shore for survival, we struggle to trust in our safety. We are invited to release our grip on the shore and have faith. Once again, I'm reminded of the Hopi Elder's message:

"There is a river now flowing very fast. It is so swift that there are those who will be afraid. They will try to hold on to the shore and they will feel like they are being torn apart and will suffer greatly.

Know that the river has a destination. The elders say we must let go of the shore, push off into the middle of the river, keep our eyes open and our heads above the water and see who is in there with you – and celebrate!”

Acknowledge your feelings:

To consciously release a feeling, avoid ignoring it; instead, fully experience it. Acknowledge your emotions. Allow them to surface, be recognized, and flow through you rather than being suppressed.

Accept the truth:

Grieve for what is being lost, then accept the reality of the situation. You don’t have to like it, but acknowledge its truth. Denial breeds anger and fear. Stop resisting the truth. Cease the bargaining, the attempts to control, and the fighting. Know that you don't need to struggle for solutions - just drop into stillness and acceptance of the situation. It is what it is.

Stillness resembles the dawn of a new day—a gateway to infinite possibilities. Once we reach that moment, we can step through this door, knowing we will be okay. We will evolve and grow through this journey. Our only barrier to a life we love is our resistance.

When you elevate your vibration, you will attract people and situations that resonate with it. Observe those around you; recognize that you share a higher vibrational experience and celebrate together. Allow those with lower vibrations to remain where they choose, freeing yourself from any guilt for pursuing your own experience. Guilt is a choice rooted in fear. Stay true to your higher vibration, and those who resonate can choose to rise to meet you.

It will become increasingly clear that two distinct realities are available for selection. Choose the one that aligns with your aspirations. Your choice will shape your reality. Opt for the higher vibrational reality and embrace your role as the New Human.

Regardless of the truths that surface or the disasters that unfold, find peace in what is, and do not let fear drag you down. Step away from resistance. Trust that you are being guided toward a deeper peace and a brighter future.

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Debra Jones

Master Healer, Empowerment Strategist, Mindset Shifter, Teacher, Mentor, Author, Podcaster, Astrologer

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